In recent weeks, I attended Duke University’s 2025 Martin Luther King Jr. Service of Commemoration, themed “Hope Powered by Community.” The event was deeply inspiring.
The first time I heard Dr. King’s “I Have a Dream” speech, especially the phrase “content of their character,” I was profoundly moved. As a child, I didn’t fully understand it but sensed its importance. Those words sparked early reflections on vital qualities like love, honesty, and integrity. I was fortunate because my parents were tremendous examples of these qualities.
At this year’s event, Judge Jerry W. Blackwell’s keynote was powerful. His role in the Derek Chauvin trial for George Floyd reflects his commitment to justice. Despite heartbreaking cases, he maintains hope in humanity’s goodness. Hope, powered by shared values, propels us forward—a reminder to surround ourselves with those who inspire us to strive for a better future.
Content of Their Character
I have learned to observe actions over words. Character is shown by consistent actions. Watch how someone treats others, especially those who can’t offer anything in return.
Assess their response to adversity. Adversity reveals resilience and humility. Do they take responsibility for mistakes or shift blame? Do they persevere with grace?
Listen to how they speak about others. How someone talks about others when they’re not present reflects their empathy and judgment.
Notice their commitments and follow-through. Reliability is key. Do they keep promises and align actions with their values?
Look at how they use influence reveals priorities. Do they uplift others or prioritize personal gain?
Dr. King had a dream, but we are living our lives every day and choosing with our actions who are the people we choose to do it with.
